We discussed a little on communication last week but as I have said previously, I believe communication is one of the most important elements of any relationship. Therefore, I wanted to convey its importance even further, as well as describe some techniques that can significantly improve a relationship. A lack of communication can lead to misunderstandings, unsaid feelings, or contention. I have witnessed in my own family a fairly significant lack of communication which has driven some family members apart, making it difficult to feel the Spirit in our home. Sometimes people just do not want to talk. So what do you do when someone refuses to communicate or open up? Let us begin with another valid question: what are the reasons for someone to not open up? Perhaps he or she has a fear that the other person will not understand where they are coming from, or maybe fears being judged. Perhaps the person does not feel they can trust or feel comfortable around the person they do not want to...
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